FVS 22: NO MORE MR NICE GUY


Fight for the things that you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you. -Ruth Bader Ginsburg
FVS 22: NO MORE MR NICE GUY
Fight for the things that you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you. -Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Hi, this is another edition of “For Value Sake”. A weekly email newsletter, it contains a few articles, a book recommendation, a podcast, and a TED talk. These are the most impressionable resources I consumed during the week, and share them so you can reap some value as I did. The only goal is to add value.
Yo!!! Smile. Great Vibes Only.
In case you are yet to write your vision and goals for the year, these can help. Resource 1, Resource 2
Go Big!
10 SPIRITUAL GOALS FOR THE YEAR
“That’s why one year I decided to try a focus on “being” in place of “doing.” Instead of working really hard to change my behaviour, I tried creating a clear vision of who I wanted to become”
I came across this article as I was looking for inspiration to set my spiritual goals for the year. And it did have elements for things we would truly want to remind ourselves of.
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AMERICAS NEW RELIGIONS
“Everyone has a religion. It is, in fact, impossible not to have a religion if you are a human being.”
God created us with an innate need and desire to believe in something that transcends our current individual physiological frame of existence. Brilliant Read!
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THE FIGHT OVER MEN IS SHAPING OUR POLITICAL FUTURE
“Traditional masculinity — marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression — is, on the whole, harmful.”
There is fire on the mountain o! Being a man is officially toxic according to the American Psychological Association. “Left-Leaning” America is working really hard to break the world.
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TED TALK OF THE WEEK:
THE AGE OLD SHARING ECONOMIES OF AFRICA AND WHY WE SHOULD SCALE THEM
“And I can say with almost certainty that the Igbo apprenticeship system that governs Alaba International Market is the largest business incubator platform in the world.”
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BOOK OF THE WEEK: NO MORE MR NICE GUY BY ROBERT A GLOVER
This initially wasn’t on my list of books to read this year. I typically have a long list spanning till the end of the year, but a friend sent me this book as a reply FVS 21. I like to think that I am to some extent a nice guy. This book is quite insightful on some of the toxicity in being a so-called “nice guy”. Robert calls it “Nice Guy Syndrome”. I thought it was one of those surface books, but it’s actually intellectually deep.
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That’s it for the week! Thanks for reading!
If you want the book, holla and I’ll send you an e-copy.
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